Weekly Word - May 13th

May 13, 2009         www.oneiowa.org

Howard Dean to headline One Iowa reception! Gov. Dean to join us in honoring Senator Mike Gronstal and Speaker Pat Murphy

Protect the Freedom to Marry in Iowa with Special Guest Governor Howard Dean. Join us to honor Senate Majority Leader Mike Gronstal and House Speaker Pat Murphy for their committment to equality. History in the Heartland Reception Thursday, May 28, 2009 7:00-8:30 PM Home of Carolyn Jenison 1330 9th Street Des Moines, IA 50309 Host: $2,500 Sponsor: $1,000 Supporter: $500 Friend: $250 Individual Ticket: $100 Student Ticket: $35

Gov. Howard Dean

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"When all is said and done, we believe the only lasting question about today's events will be why it took us so long." -Senator Mike Gronstal & Representative Pat Murphy

Upcoming Events

May 28, 2009 7:00-8:30 PM "History in the Heartland" in honor of Sen. Gronstal and Rep. Murphy with Special Guest Gov. Dean Home of Carolyn Jenison 1330 9th Street, Des Moines Reserve Your Ticket! May 30, 2009 10:00 AM-5:00 PM Grassroots Power Summit Des Moines Central Library 1000 Grand Ave., Des Moines RSVP June 5, 2009 First Friday Breakfast Club Click for more details June 5, 2009 5:30 PM Matthew Shepard Scholarship Awards Dinner featuring Judy Shepard Click for more information June 6, 2009 10 AM Pride Ride 2009 Saylorville Lake-Cherry Glen #1 5600 NW 78th Ave. Click for more details June 12, 2009 5:30 PM One Iowa Happy Hour Dos Rios 316 Court Ave., Des Moines June 13-14, 2009 Capital City Pride Events Click for more details Volunteer with One Iowa June 19th, 6 PM PRIDE Patio Party at the Sheraton Hotel 210 S. Dubuque St., Iowa City June 20, 2009 Omaha Pridefest Lewis & Clark Landing 515 N. Riverfront Dr, Omaha, NE Volunteer with One Iowa June 20, 2009 Iowa City/Cedar Rapids Corridor Pride Upper City Park, Shelter 3 200 W Park Rd, Iowa City Volunteer with One Iowa June 21, 2009 2:00-4:00 PM Interfaith & Affirming Churches Picnic LeClaire Park, Beiderbeck Dr, Davenport, IA June 21, 2009 4:00 PM Colors Across the River for Equality (CARE) Centennial Bridge over Mississippi River Join 500 LGBT and ally Quad Citians as they hold 1000 PRIDE flags across the bridge. Participation in the event is free and you can keep your rainbow PRIDE flag for just $5. Contact Rich Hendricks with questions at richdhendricks@msn.com June 27, 2009 Quad Cities Pride LeClaire Park Beiderbeck Dr., Davenport Volunteer with One Iowa

MARRIAGE MATTERS: FAMILIES IN FOCUS

The Oprah Winfrey Show features Iowa Couple!

Our friends Maryfrances and Stephanie from Urbandale were recently featured on the Oprah Winfrey Show in a segment discussing marriage equality in Iowa.

Watch it Now!

RADICAL WATCH: THEY'LL STOP AT NOTHING

Phelps' Family Invades Iowa

In the same week that Chuck Hurley and the Iowa Family Policy Center warned "People will die" as a result of the freedom to marry in Iowa, Shirley Phelps, the daughter of famed Kansas hatemonger Fred Phelps, brought her special brand of hatred to Iowa.

The group of six protesters from the Westboro Baptist Church carried inflammatory signs, shouted down passersby, and sang hateful songs. Listen to this chilling audio clip of the group singing to the tune of John Denver's "Country Road". Nearly 200 students and community members gathered in response to the Phelps' family visit at Lincoln High School to show their support for equality. The strong community response demonstrates that most Iowans reject intolerance, whether it comes from the Phelps' family or from the Iowa Family Policy Center.

GET INVOLVED: MAKE A DIFFERENCE

One Iowa Grassroots Power Summit: On May 30, 2009, activists from across the state will gather at the Des Moines Central Library to discuss the grassroots strategies moving forward. At the summit, we'll give you the tools you need to help protect marriage equality in your community. The summit last from 10:00 AM-5:00 PM and includes a complimentary lunch with a suggested donation of $15 to cover expenses. PLEASE RSVP NOW to join us! Volunteer for One Iowa at Pride events around the state! Click on the Pride at which you wish to volunteer to sign up: June 14: Capital City Pride June 20: Omaha Pridefest June 20: Iowa City/Cedar Rapids Corridor Pride June 27: Quad Cities Pride Phone for Equality! Join One Iowa for one of our nightly phone banks Sunday through Thursday. Never phoned before? No problem - our staff will give you all the tools you need to succeed and spread our message of equality! Sign up for a shift now!

In the News

May 13 Des Moines Register: Guest column: Let's have a civil conversation about civil marriage As an Iowan, mother and grandmother, I am proud of the way that we Iowans raise our families and how we respect one another. Iowans believe in treating one another with fairness. I've witnessed this throughout my life, most recently through the outpouring of support from family members, neighbors and friends who congratulated me on my engagement to Sue, my partner of nearly 20 years. May 10 Cedar Rapids Gazette: Dorman: Judicial System at Work So basically, in their definition of the marriage institution, opponents believe it's acceptable to undermine vital judicial institutions that have served Iowans well since plows broke the prairie. They figure Iowans will buy this outlandish hooey. They're flat wrong. KWWL, Iowa City: Soldiers can be discharged for gay marriage
Johnson County Recorder Kim Painter has never agreed with the "don't ask don't tell" rule. But for her, it's not all about gay rights. "It weakens our defense," said Painter. KTIV, Sioux City: 'Don't ask, don't tell' policy disqualifies gay married couples A policy that One Iowa, thinks puts service men and women in an impossible situtation. "Iowans serving honorably in the military should not have to choose between the protections of marriage and their dedication to serving our country," said Justin Uebelhor, Director of Communications, One Iowa. *We want to know what you're reading! If you see an Iowa-related LGBT news item in your local newspaper, please forward it to justin@one-iowa.org.